For most though, we come for deeper reasons. I could list so many - illness, depression, loneliness etc...
Just don't so much in SL that you never face what is wrong in real life. For a few of us it is to late, we are trapped, but it is not like that for all. So get those big girl panties on and face real life head on, grab it and do everything you can to turn things around while you have that chance. And those things you are struggling, jump in to SL and get support from friends - if you don't have someone in SL to help you, I.M. me. I never want anyone to feel they have to face the crap alone.
wearing - Confident by InsomniaStore @ Zodiac
hair - Jimi by Lamb @ FaMESHed
mesh head - Strong by Genus @ Skin Fair
head applier - Alice by Lure @ Skin Fair
body applier - Vanilla @ Lure
lipstick - Amy by Michan @ Skin Fair
eyeshadow - 001 by Rekt Royalty @ Skin Fair
shape - Gina by Rekt Royalty @ Skin Fair
tattoo - leg & body - Sandra by AuricA @ Skin Fair
neon - Cats by Backbone @ Equal10
barbell, dumbell, bench - Beer Fitness @ Backbone